Back in Lockdown, many of us are spending more time in our own heads as the things that usually distracted us from ourselves have been removed. An important thing to remember right now is that Thoughts are NOT Facts. Not everything you think is true, and so it is helpful to develop a practice of questioning your thoughts, instead of taking them at their word. Left alone to wander, the mind will tend toward negative thinking. This is just how we are built, it's something that has helped us evolve and stay alive over the centuries - the mind scans the environment for potential danger so we can prepare for it. A certain amount of this thinking is obviously helpful, but too much can paint a dire picture. Add to this the tendency for our mood to colour our thinking, and a mild sadness can spiral into a depression without us even noticing. Make it a practice to bring your awareness to what is happening inside your mind, and question it. Here are some questions I find helpful:
"Thoughts simply aren’t facts, they are mental events that pop up in the mind and are dependent on our mood." - Elisha Goldstein
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So many of us are feeling extra pressure and strain as a result of the pandemic. It has affected all our lives, and yet, many of us are giving ourselves a hard time for not being able to proceed as normal, keeping up with all we have to do, staying happy and calm. The reality is that life is different now, many of our comforting structures have gone with working from home, our social lives have diminished, and uncertainty is a part of daily life. With this change in how we live our lives, it's wise to adapt accordingly. I am encouraging clients (and myself) to take some of the pressure of, and lighten the expectations we place on ourselves. When you're making your to-do list this week, be aware of your energy levels. If you are feeling tired or stressed, can you take a few to-do items off your list? Is there anything that isn't absolutely necessary? Give yourself permission to take it easy if you need to, what's the worst that can happen? “The first step towards true enlightenment is to lighten up on yourself.” ― Bashar Sometimes our minds are like a broken record, we mull over the same thoughts, memories, or problems without reaching any clarity or resolution. We can even feel more confused after wandering through the maze of our own minds endlessly. When this happens, it can help to ask for help, and we can do this internally. If you find yourself this week struggling with an anxious thought, a dilemma, a dark mood, pause and take a breath. Connect to the present moment by tuning in to your senses. Think of a person you trust or admire, they can be someone in your life like a parent or teacher (living or dead), it may be a public figure, or a spiritual leader. Then ask yourself: "What would (insert name of your chosen wise person) do right now?/say to me right now?" Listen for the answer - it may come right away, it may come later, be patient. “Thoreau writes, “Is there a greater miracle than to see through another’s eyes, even for an instant?” ― Tara Brach |
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